Are regrets when you end a separation normal?

[TBL]

Mountaintop,

I am happy to hear you are doing well. Thanks for the insight.

I think my W is living your POV.

But we are fully dialoguing each day, now to question 4. Some serious, some not as much.

We are fully committed to the process. We love to workout, run, bike, swim, etc and we are feeling this is simply a workout also that must be completed each day.

At the appropriate time during the weekend, and you probably know when that was, I brought up the EA. It just came naturally, she was in fact expecting it, we dialogued well. I believed her answer on the issue.

Later Saturday again at the appropriate time in the program we both asked for forgiveness for what we had each done. It could really not have gone better.

Yesterday we went out to eat for a nice dinner as a family, she told me she loved me and we had a wonderful night together in many respects.

I know this is day to day and there will be ups and downs but many more ups than I had ever expected to see again.

Keep up the work on your end and to a certain degree the daily process might give you both some insight into what the other is feeling. In other words that much dialoguing can't but help the communication issue.

Maybe the word red to her really means purple, etc, etc