I didn't send the NC letter. This is what I have been typing so far:

Dear Mr. 4luv,

I love you and I married you for life. I want to remain married to you. I am willing and committed to doing what it takes to be the spouse you've always wanted and to address the things that I did wrong in our marriage.

Your recent dating and your past admitted affairs are so painful for me that it will destroy the love I have for you. In order to protect those feelings I must end all contact with you. As soon as you have stopped dating and I can assure that the affairs are over I would love to talk with you about our future. Until that time please respect my wish for no contact.

In an emergency you can reach me through text. Arrangements for seeing children and handling finances can be handled via text or email.

Sincerely,
4luv


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo