Now, I'm not saying your H was addicted to anything. What I am saying is...obviously, he had some issues, as we all do. Instead of working them out with you and working on the M, your h sought to make himself feel better through OW. It doesn't work though...which is why so many a's don't last. No one can make someone else happy. No one can make someone else feel secure in themselves or feel worthwhile. It has to come from within.
This is what db'ing is all about. Us learning to take care of ourselves, love ourselves, and improve ourselves...and it becoming attractive and yes, by God, contagious.
