Saturday is S3 b'day. He says he want a real cow for his b'day! Don't think we can swing that! Anyway, W has been very pissy all week and we haven't talked about his b'day. Before I left for work this morning, I asked her if she had anything planned for him. She has an all day v'ball tourney on Sat. and has to work Sun. then Mon. and Tues. she is going to a concert with her sister. She said she hadn't had time to plan anything. I said that's OK, I thought about taking the kids to a movie and out to eat and inviting a few of his friends. She did not like that! She then started saying maybe we could go to the zoo or something Sun. when she gets home from work. I said sure, but I was still doing something with the kids Sat. I finished getting ready for work and W and S3 were in the recliner watching TV. I gave S a kiss goodbye and he gave me a big hug. I was right by her face so I turned up to her and gave her a kiss. She kissed back and I smiled and told her goodbye. I probably shouldn't have kissed her, but my face was right there, you know? I didn't expect anything in return and just left. The bottom line is, the kids and I will have a good time, and if she want to do something Sun with us, that will be fine, her choice.