Just difficult to cut him off completely. How do I do it when we have a baby together? I mean, I am in the process of planning son's bday party also which I haven't involved husband in but he wants to help with the planning.
Believe me, I see the point of NC. It puts me at a healthy place. I have more peace. I feel free. But when do I end NC? It seems as my husband has taken even my few days of NC as (1)a opportunity to go off the deep end and date (2)as a point that I don't give a chit about him and that I have moved on. My parents feel I am playing a game (more so my mom than my dad). My dad thinks I should call him ONLY if I have a particular question (i.e. emergency for son).
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo