one last thing....xH wasn't particularly a "nice guy" as described here in its negative aspects. or--even its positive aspects for that matter!! I think I had the worst of both worlds!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
