Ruined_No_More, Here are the exact words from the note I sent to W.

I have come to realize that I have been attempting to hold you against your will. This simply cannot be done. You say you want out of our marriage and, obviously I have to let you go.

For me, this was a 180. Up to this point, I have always wanted to save the marriage. This is first time I have said I am ready to let go. I guess, since the D papers are waiting for my signature, I was thinking I had nothing to lose.

As far as me contacting her goes, I agree, it would have been better to go dark. We normally check in with each other via text message. When she didn't reply I assumed she read the note I sent. I was interested in knowing her reaction.


Me: 45 WAW: 45 | M22 | T25 | No Kids
Nov 09 W Filed | Dec 09 Separation
Mar 17 2010 Divorce Papers Signed | Divorce Hearing Cancelled
Moved back home May 2010
PA Confirmed June 2010 | W left Dec 7 2010