new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

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I'd like to add one more perspective from a woman. I agree with Rob above - that was LEADERSHIP in your family. Women look for leadership, respect, kindness, protection and love in men. Forget the "bad boy" thing... I don't know where that came from! Its the traits the show confidence in yourself and your ability to lead your family that we like most.

From a woman's perspective... might I add a leadership oriented, assertive, aggressive woman -

Ditto what Talia writes.

"Bad boys" are for weak women who won't draw boundaries. "Nice Guys" tend not to draw boundaries for the strong (and vocal) women they are married to.


A man can be a strong, decisive, NICE ... without being run over by a woman who won't trust him to take proper care.

The strong women I know are attracted to men who listen, partner, take care of business, respect themselves and lead.

Couldn't resist chiming in on this one.
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