neither of you are the same person as you were in the past...believe it or not you BOTH have learned and grown from this experience.
Instead of looking for reasons why what happend happend (sheesh I hate to use the same word twice)...keep looking for ways to keep things from happening.
I know I know...how can I keep it from happening if I don't know why it happend.
let go of that line of thinking...going back there and trying to figure it all out isn't going to get you to where you want to be...stay in the now and work toward something that is better.
Yup. You are totally right...I need to stay in the here and now...figure out how to build on this good stuff...do things differently...
I DID have the realization yesterday that I think I'm struggling a lot with seeing how differently h handles things now...how many changes he has made in himself. Kind of like the WAS who clings to the "old" and can't see the "new" as real or lasting.
Thanks for the reminder to stop looking over my shoulder! Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
