I am opting to not respond. Him reaching out the way he did is kind of lame. Let's see if he has something better to offer...because this isn't going to cut it. This doesn't sound like a man committed to reconciling or becoming a better man. Patience.
I want to ask him if he has spoken to the OW but I won't...I don't think the timing is right. If all goes well with the MC tonight..I will make an appt for me and H to go next week.
Do you think before even going to MC with him...would it be ok to ask him about the OW? would it be ok to ask to see phone records? I don't want to even start MC with him if he is still talking to OW..and I want to make it clear from the start. Any ideas of how I can do this tactfully..without sounding like cop/mom..or sounding like a threat.
