Aver... I keep saying this.. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT...
Self confidence is the sexiest accessory you can have. Men (correct me if I'm wrong) like THAT more than almost anything (wel... maybe not leather... ) The fun part of confidence is its EASY to fake and if you fake it pretty soon you realize... you weren't actually faking it.. you were FINDING it within yourself!
Love your fine self!!
T
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
I would kill for a hint of bicep!!! Uncover that toned bod, girlfriend!!!
Newmama -
Glad you're stepping back from "the process" a bit. You're a good girl, and beautiful, too! You never know what will happen either way. Go on your trip, and rock it!!!
Cesco -
That's my uniform!!! Didn't you follow the t-shirt links? LoL They are just starting to look a little better now... The bra back fat has left the building! LoL
OK, trying to figure out how to get the run out when it's pouring outside! Guess I could put on my H's golf rain gear! LoL I'd probably lose 10lbs, because I'd sweat to death!!
Shopped for about an hour this am... Looking for a dress to an event H and I are going to next Friday. Last year, this event was a DISASTER for us, and I'm just looking to create some kind of better memory!! I'm thinkin' CITYGIRL YELLOW!!!
H was home last night, and met up w/us for soccer meeting and dinner at a fun place. He had never been to this place, since it's been under new management. It was superb! Definite sports bar type place, but great daily specials, and the food was awesome! New place to go!
He had to go back out of town for work when we were done w/dinner, and I chose to do something different later in the night. (I RARELY call him anymore.) He had asked earlier what he was wearing to this event next Friday. So, I called him, and we discussed his options (he's wearing black trousers, a new shirt that I got him for our anniversary, and this HOT ultra-suede jacket). Before we hung up, I told him to make sure he chose comfortable shoes, because I was ready to dance! (This is a BIG HUGE LOL because he has to be the worst dancer ever born!) He said, "Well, I had better take the week off then, because I'll have to start drinking on Monday then!"
Things are a bit more comfortable, and I'm liking intimating one-on-one activity between us, and then following it up w/some physical touch.
OK, gotta work!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I just had my usual breakfast cereal... Honey Bunches of Oats w/Almonds - That's 6g already! And, 2% Milk, even if I don't drink it, just have what's on cereal... - That's another 6g!!
I can only have 3 more grams today! Wow!
New breakfast required!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
MF- check out oatmeal mixed with All Bran Buds for extra fiber (popinmicro)and season w/ ginger, cinnamon, milk, and your natural sugar sub- whatever that is.
OR scramble a couple of eggs, drop in chopped canadian bacon and a sprinkle of cheese for a total of 300 cal but higher on fat content...no sugar I think!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
It can take some getting used to, but a breakfast of scrambled eggs with salsa, and some sauteed greens (kale/spinach/collards/chard) is really satisfying and healthy.
There are lots of freezer breakfasts that are egg-based that you can prep and freeze in muffin cups and heat individually.
Another good breakfast is organic yogurt with some sliced nuts, with grated apple or defrosted berries, or sliced banana.
Boxed cereal is basically empty calories, devoid of nutrition.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
) The fun part of confidence is its EASY to fake and if you fake it pretty soon you realize... you weren't actually faking it.. you were FINDING it within yourself!