My H unfriended me last night on FB. Then he texted me to tell me he that he thought it was better if we didn't interact on FB. I didn't reply, and I haven't interacted with him on FB. I think it's because the OW is one of his friends on there. Plus about a month ago he removed his relationship status, it used to say married, now it's nothing.

He did go over to my friends yesterday. But because a lot of other people ended up going over to their house, not a lot was said. Here is a summary of what was said:

F: You need to stop playing games and make up your mind. And D is not the answer.

H: I believe it is the answer

F: You have no idea, if that is the route you take you are in for a rude awaking. You think it's hard now, you just wait

F's H: If you D, you will regret it

H: I will regret either decision I make

FH: Maybe, but you can't keep doing this. Your kids are suffering and what you are doing is hurting them. D will hurt your kids. But playing these games is hurting too. If your going to D your family then do it, stop playing games. You are going to regret a D

F: You need to stop playing games with your W, she is done with your drama. Make-up your mind, be a man, and do something.

I guess H just went silent after that, and that pretty much ended the convo.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10