My H unfriended me last night on FB. Then he texted me to tell me he that he thought it was better if we didn't interact on FB. I didn't reply, and I haven't interacted with him on FB. I think it's because the OW is one of his friends on there. Plus about a month ago he removed his relationship status, it used to say married, now it's nothing.
He did go over to my friends yesterday. But because a lot of other people ended up going over to their house, not a lot was said. Here is a summary of what was said:
F: You need to stop playing games and make up your mind. And D is not the answer.
H: I believe it is the answer
F: You have no idea, if that is the route you take you are in for a rude awaking. You think it's hard now, you just wait
F's H: If you D, you will regret it
H: I will regret either decision I make
FH: Maybe, but you can't keep doing this. Your kids are suffering and what you are doing is hurting them. D will hurt your kids. But playing these games is hurting too. If your going to D your family then do it, stop playing games. You are going to regret a D
F: You need to stop playing games with your W, she is done with your drama. Make-up your mind, be a man, and do something.
I guess H just went silent after that, and that pretty much ended the convo.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10