Are you still attracted to your Ex?

[elscotto]

I am curious as to what others have experienced. I have been divorced for closing in on 6 mos and it was a whirlwind of getting here. Before, during, and after the divorce I was a attracted to my ex. I saw her and thought--she is very good looking and so forth. Lately--and this seems to be a relatively recent transformation I look at her and I am not very (at all sometimes) attracted to her. I'm wondering for those who have gotten a divorce or been separated for a while what your experience has been with this?

Is it a normal part of the healing that happens and is it a part of my "script?" I love it that the Walk Away spouses have thier own script but I am wondering if tehre should be a documented script for the LBS's.

Thoughts?

Thanks for all!