And I really have to wonder how badly you want full custody. IMO if that was your main desire you would have stopped this terrible and damaging behavior a long time ago and really focused on the goal at hand.
I guess my main desire was more to convince my ex to stop all this foolishness as I saw it and come back...at which point custody of D3 would be a non-issue since we'd be together again.
If I could have foreseen everything that happened over the past 3-4 months...knowing how it would hall be working out, I would have ignored my ex over focusing on being the super dad I once was.
And if I am not awarded primary custody I do agree that its my own fault for not controlling my emotions and consequently my behavior. Up until I fouind out about the OM and bregan to react to it, my ex had nothing on me. I mean if back then she would have told a judge that she left because I paid more attention to D3 and taking care of D3 and all the housework than I did my ex, I would have been a show in for primary custody.
At any rate...I havent heard from my ex since she dorpped off D3 yesterday. She didnt call D3 before bed last night (I think...I got a restricted call around her bedtime but figured it was a telemarketer and didnt answer) nor did she show up at D3's school this morning like she's done for the past few weeks. Of course that may be because I told her not to. She got pissy with me yesterday morning at D3's pick up when I wanted to talk to her and she said she wasnt going to talk about anything, that this was her time with D3 and she wanted to get her and go. So I told her that today was my time with her and she shouldnt show up at her school.
At least she finally did something I asked...I guess. She may have gone out and got drunk last night and not been able to drive to D3s school...who knows.
