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[sage]

Now, suggestion as to his friends...try to practice some acceptance. He is in school. It is coed. He has friends of both sexes....accept that. Don't overlook danger signs, but don't read too much into things either. He may be mentioning ff a lot thinking if he is talking about her you won't be suspicious or inclined to believe there is an A going on with her. He may be trying in his own way to calm your fears..not create more. Would he really be talking about her if there was an A going on, after all you have been through?

Hey Ag,

Thanks for the great post

I did want to clarify something...my anxiety right now isn't that I think h is up to something ... it's that this single pointed friendship is raising a lot of the fears and anxiety and sadnesses of before.

I'm not sure I'm being clear. Maybe my next post will help.

Sage