Well then, filing starts like a piece of paper like Cbug said. It can take a long time to actually divorce.

Since you don't have kids then it will be less paperwork and classes, etc. if you do complete the D.

There will not be less emotional pain. But you can be cut from her.

JUST MAKE SURE that you are filing for the D because you want to cut her out of your life, NOT because you hope it will "wake her up" or bring her back.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004