Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[courts0818]

Scott, you are right. I'm sure he likes having the best of both worlds - family time when it's conveient for him and also the freedom to do whatever he wants. And by not taking action, I'm enabling this crap to contiune.

He does need to understand the full ramificiations of his choices. He can't have the best of both worlds any longer.

I am a work in progress, but I'm trying. I've stopped contacting him unless it has something to do with only 2 things -money & DD. Yet, he finds a way to contact me almost daily - a text to ask if I'm working, if DD & I have plans, what I wrote a check for, etc... He needs to commit to me or leave me alone.

And I was really taken back by the invite to the casino. He hasn't invited me to anything for months and months. I'm not sure where that came from and it doesn't matter. I've decided that he was just throwing me some leftover crumbs...as always.

I get paid tomorrow and hope to have enough for the $250 to see a new lawyer.