Interesting day yesterday as I outlined above. As I mentioned W and I spoke for the first time in a while. It was a very nice convo about the kids. I am trying not to read to much into this but I wanted to let you know that yesterday was the first day that I did not wear my wedding ring. Interesting enough…today she did not wear hers.

I’m not sure how to take this.. and I know that I can and should not read too much into this but...I wonder if her not seeing the ring was a negative in her mind. Since I have really started to detach I think she may be opening up a bit. I’m not sure if not wearing the ring was some sort of sign for her. I keep working on myself and I really do not have any expectation but at the same token – I don’t want to mess up the possiblity of reconciliation. Any thoughts on if I should continue to wear the ring? Also, should I try and be a little more social with her or should I continue with my DIM approach and really limit the contact. I am trying to keep my expectations low and felt good about yesterday's convo but I wonder if I did not hurt my cause here. Just looking for some feedback.

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