new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

[talia]

HOLY CRAP did I miss all the fun last night!!!

I'd like to add one more perspective from a woman. I agree with Rob above - that was LEADERSHIP in your family. Women look for leadership, respect, kindness, protection and love in men. Forget the "bad boy" thing... I don't know where that came from! Its the traits the show confidence in yourself and your ability to lead your family that we like most. That's what women are attracted to. The whole "Nice Guy" stigma seems to have been confused in previous posts - male and female interpretations of what that means. Go figure.... Us ladies typically see the above traits as someone being a "Nice Guy" ... you guys typically see the walk all over me, I would do anything for you just don't leave me behaviors as "Nice Guy"..

From a woman's perspective... might I add a leadership oriented, assertive, aggressive woman - listen to these gentlemen! They are not steering you wrong! You are making great strides and you should be proud of yourself for that!!

T