Last night I went to a office function and one of the ladies who sat next to me as hitting on me. What a confidence booster that was. I came home later on and was happy and chirpy with my W. Todl her it was a good time and she continued to read her book.
This morning, just before she left for work, I mentioned to her that as the kids are off for march break next week, I was thinking of taking them to a museum. She was at first taken back because she was working most of next week except Thursday and Friday, and she felt that I am not inviting her. She mentioned she would like to go if I made it on those days. I said sure.
As she was leaving I told her to smile today and that she will be fine. I was at a distance so that I wasnt intimidated or anything. so, is it nice, or the "nice guy syndrom" again..
Nope -- I think that's fine. EXCELLENT, in fact. You didn't invite her, you LED, and initiated the outing with your children, and when SHE brought it up, you told her she was welcome to come. That's perfect.