thanks- I am / have been very guilty of feeding the negativity...and it is a self-fulfilling prophecy...
In my sitch when I exude the confidence or positivity- I was accused of being in denial...
Thin line to walk- as long as the focus is on me I guess there can be no denial
maybe because you're thinking the negative thoughts but putting on the happy face but the body language shows that you're faking it, don't discount the body language as it is more powerful than the words you speak and women specifically tend to be more intuitive than men when it comes to reading body language.
Time to start thinking those positive thoughts and allowing those vibes to come out in the body language, you can't control what your wife thinks so you might as well focus on enjoying your life and making it a good one.
