Should I Tell Her to Move On???

[gr8 day 2B alive]

You may learn a lot about your W's intentions once you get into the mediator.

This point is what I really need b/c I don't know exactly what W wants.
It seems to me if she was so sure about D and that's want she wanted, she would have done this long ago.

Is it wrong for me ask her to give me an anwser? There are only 3 possibilities:

1. Yes, I want to work on the marriage.
2. No, I want to proceed with D.
3. I'm not sure.

If she says I'm not sure, then I would it turn ask her to be specific about her uncertainties. What exactly are you unsure about?.

She has been so wishy washy about all her decisions.