It is nice to hear from you again after all this time.
I agree about ignoring the text, this I have done. I had drafted a response, but my gut feeling told me not to send it. I always think there is a thin dividing line between dignity and standing up for oneself. I have real trouble deciding. If I do not respond I always think it looks weak. I ignore 99% of her texts as it resorts to text tennis. There is no respect at all from her, I just get treated like dirt, but I prefer to say I keep the moral high ground in not responding. How can I not look weak? How can I look strond or get some respect?
The texts bothers me though, because she then resorted to the attacks on me as she did months ago, her anger is still present. I am told she has OM, so I do not understand why she is still angry.
She has lied about where she currently resides, which is her parents home. She has broken the law by putting down the former marital home as our D's residence, which in itself is breaking the law.
I had my solicitor send a letter to my W noting that she must keep me in the loop in regard to my children. After the impending D I have to go to court again to apply for a Contact Order for my children.
J, why do you think this anger is still so strong seeing as it was her decision to D, OM in place, single life, income and childrens benefit etc?
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
