Originally Posted By: Onthemountaintop


I'm trying to remember if you said you tried Retrouv. Did you and your W ever get to a point where the OM was gone and you could try this?

Maynard: Thanks for the encouragement~


No we did not get to this point. I have lost the respect. So we will not be getting to this point.

But that means down the road I will get to Retrouv with a new partner. And it means we will be going there to strengthen the bond that has already been established. And we will return over and over to continue to work on the communication skills. For they can always be improved.

Just remember that doing stuff for her all the time is great. But sometimes you need to do some stuff for yourself. And sometimes she needs to do some stuff for you.

GIVER vs TAKER.

Seek balance here.

I hope your physical attraction comes back. Has it been there before?

If it does not. Thats not good.


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