Its ok to badmouth him...he deserves it!! wink

He is such a child. He doesn't know how to handle everything. He blames not being here with baby long because he has his other kids. Seems baby is always riding a close third or fourth to other things in his life. Oh well, his choices.

Baby has been saying his name lately. Not alot, but just more than normal. Between visits she didn't even mention him..now she is, but only for the few hours after he leaves or when she sees his picture. It makes me cringe and I can barely acknowledge to her that she said his name. I need to get better with that for her sake.

Baby's birthday is in 2 weeks. I really want to enjoy this time with baby, but am a bit nervous about her party night. Exh and whomever he brings (just not MGF!) along with my kids and my family will be here. My sister will be civil to him but its going to take my mother everything in her to be nice to him. I have told her more lately about what has happened and what he continues to be like and she cannot stand him. I did tell her last night she had to put her poker face on and not show what she is really feeling. Its crucial that this place is at the very least civil all the time for exh...I don't want him trying to change visit locations and have a neutral party supervise because he feels uncomfortable.

MOPS today! Very happy. Baby was restless last night. We have had high winds here last few days and I wonder if she has allergies??? Makes mine flare up too.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!