Quote: I want to be able to say "Look, I'm terrified that we're vulnerable to another a. Can we please talk about how that DOESN'T happen again. Can we PLEASE talk about how opposite sex friends fit into our lives? Can we talk about what I can or can't do and what you can or can't do to make this feel better for both of us?"
Is it not possible for you to talk to him about your anxieties? I am not good about knowing if it is okay or not, as you know... I DO know that eventually these discussions need to happen for us to heal.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
