I will be filing early next week...still NC, and feeling pretty good about it. I will also spend this evening and tomorrow, moving W's belongings into the garage.

I will continue NC until W is served and hopefully until the D takes place.

She has only admitted to still being confused and not knowing what she wants. I find that the NC really is the best way to go for ones-self...I have processed many emotions and have attained moments of "whatever"- I guess that's indifference.

Allen I'm open to your advice on the filing. I know that it's not truly what I want as an end result- so I'm a bit on the fence I suppose.

I understand that patience is required in this as well, perhaps I'm jumping the gun.

I had offered a while back that W attend Retrouvaille w/ me prior to D-ing...I have not mentioned it since, but I have pre-registered for one nearby in April.

Need some insight please


DARK