I agree about most of the points made here in the last few pages...I think the important thing to keep in mind is the attributes that Puppy and others have refereneced, confidence, assertiveness, maturity, and civility.
The behaviours exhibited w/in the context of these attributes is the way to go...behaviors on the opposite side (pursuit, begging, supplicating, emotional breakdows, etc) are what need to be avoided.
Ive thouroughly enjoyed reading the last few pages and can say do what you want, if you find it doesn't work, try something else, like they said you have to live in reality as the example of living in an ideal world is very true...we do not live there.
