Down The Divorce Road

[markhaving probs]

I had a text yesterday from my W asking me if I had received my D's offer for her secondary school. She has not contacted me for months so it was quite a surprise.

I told her the letter was here which I had opened. I opened it because she has had all her mail re-directed to her parents house, hurtfully, the reason this letter was not re-directed was because she was now using her maiden name.

I opened it without looking at the name. She responded by saying it was a childish thing to do as she needed to confirm with the school authorities that she was accepting the place. I was never even consulted on where my daughter was going to go, she made the decision without asking my opinion....as a father I should have been consulted, whatever she thinks of me.

I then received another text saying I had broken the law by opening her mail, and she would note it with her solicitor AND barrister. She then went on and said that I would blame mummy as I always do if things go wrong.

Would someone please tell me why there is still anger after all this time, and secondly should I respond to het texts?

I really do need some advice on this.