AGree with NM. Sounds like he's been testing you quite a bit lately. Don't take the bait. The fat lady has not sung until the D is finalized. EVen if served with D papers, which you haven't been, there's a loooooooooooooooooong time before it's finalized to work on stuff.
You did an amazing job not fighting and obviously your H reacted positively. I"m so proud of you.
