seperated a year

[newmama]

HIT, you hit the nail on the head...since you started NC you need to follow through. If you did a different approach, the same would apply.

"The smallest most consistent actions get the best results."

Sticking to one course of action,whatever you choose, is best!
(I haven't done NC in part because I want to do it all the way if I am going to)

GOOD LUCK TO YOU and post here! I do not tell everyone to go NC but you said you were ready for divorce or reconciliation and you want to live your life, so it sounds like you are READY to do NC to the hilt!!!