flowmom | need to commit to myself

[newmama]

Flowmom, not okay to say "it's unlikely that our marriage is salveable!" you wouldn't be on DIVORCE BUSTING forum if that is the case!

I had a rough day, lots of signs pointing toward WH thinking of future as divorce. BUT he didn't bring up divorce talk and wanting to move forward with the D. My point is that your H hasn't either.

It is comforting to know both of our Hs love their kids and would take care of them well and it sounds like both of us will be able to have a positive co-parenting relationship IF divorce happens. But it hasn't happened yet!

Hey- congrats on your H cracking a joke! And for you for deciding to accept the visitation schedule temporarily and seeing what happens and asking H to revisit. I will remember this when/if my WH wants to change!