My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

I just talked to my H. I'm not sure how the phone conversation went.... he pretty much called (suposably) to find out what his student id number is for a college he is trying to get transcripts for. I told him my day at work didn't go so well and he at least asked why. He seemed somewhat moody.... and short with me. He didn't seem to want to talk to much.

I am now typing this and he just called again to find out if I got the brakes done on my car.... I of course think now he is asking because he wants them done before he files for divorce and can somehow take the car from me. He asked if I would call his cousin to finish up the trim work in our basement too, or if he should call. I told him it might be nice if he called because he has the day off tomorrow and I don't.

Now what? I think I really blew it and just didn't know what to say at all. I am having a really hard time lately talking with my H lately. I don't know what to say and he seems so disinterested in what I have to say. He doesn't take lead with the conversation and try to carry it on at all. I pretty much have to do all of the work.