Currently without a car. Transmission went about two weeks ago but it is now in the shop for repair.
Child #1 will be attending community college full time this fall. He has to sign up for classes in two weeks.
Child #2 is getting ready for her senior class trip next month and then graduation May 21st. She is slowly getting ready and saving up to go to college in August. She currently works after-school care a few days per week. She is having to save up for college books, airfare, a laptop, etc.
Child #3 will be spending part of the summer in Boston with H's sister and her family. This child is really excited as she will have a great time.
Me--still unemployed and still living in the house.
No contact at all from H and he has not seen the girls since the first of July, 2009. The last time H saw S19 was in January and that was it.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Wow MWG your h is really out there this time. I am suprised he hasn't seen the girls in a really long time. Does he text or talk with them on the phone?
How's the weather? I am hoping for sunshine next week.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
He does not talk to them on the phone and he may text the girls once every few months. With regard to S19, he texts him once in awhile but certainly not like before and he does not call S19 like he used to either. H has very little to do with all of us and that includes his family back east. Both of his parents have been ill. H has not spoken to them since 2005.
It is really damp and cold here...was about 49 degrees where we live most of the day and quite windy. Next week it is to be around 80 and sunshine!!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I wish I could report that my h and I are back together, but that didn't happen. No D at this time. My h and I have partnered with a business together and in many ways this was probably the best thing for my h. He is slowly coming out of his depression and is focused solely on this business. That is the good news.
Me, everyday I get stronger and stronger. I am working out 4-5 days per week, eating healthy, and focused on growing my spiritual path with the Lord. Moving forward in 2010 as the year of New Beginnings.
I am traveling next week to AZ for a little RR with my s21. Should be a good time.
All and all life moves on. This has been a tough life lesson for me and God has been an excellent teacher. I have many regrets, but God is healing me within.
Not neccessarily the update I wanted for my life, but God isn't finished with ME yet!
Cheers,
Glam
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
BH I guess if a D was not filed that meant still standing. I wouldn't say I am still standing only that a D was not filed. A D is onlly a piece of paper and that will come at the right time. I am focused on me and the kids with a spiritual walk with God. All in good timing!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Glam, I just assumed that you were still standing, because you said you and your H had started a business together. People who are not going to be married to each other usually don't start businesses together! Its usually the other way around! LOL Anyway, I guess we all learn and see new things everyday! As far as timing goes, I don't think there is a good time to do such a thing, but in your case I am sure you know what you are doing. I hope everything works out well for you!
