oh, yeah. sometimes I look around and wonder--where'd everybody go?! (and why'd everybody go?!) having so few attachments to people is a genuine physical stressor--not sure I realized that until I began reading about recovering from abandonment.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
