If you are adult, you make good, healthy, emotionally satisfying choices. All of my friends who are divorced & now remarried, or widowed and remarried or married later in life, all of them chose the Nice Guy. Consistently, they are all very happy. And at peace.
fyi - people tend to get less picky when the available choices aren't as numerous as they previously were the first time around ;-)
This is a deflective response designed to minimalize the comments that were made.
This is where I fall off the track with those of you espousing the "man doctrine." Women are not looking for hard asses. Being nice does not equal being weak or feminine.
I love this, how many times are people going to write the word "hard ass" as if anywhere in this thread where we discussed the attractive traits of a man we said "BE A HARD ASS!"
I personally have specifically said once if not a few times, "don't be an a$$hole or a prick!"
Read it and stop spouting "HARD ASS" unless it's a sexual fetish of yours and if so, just be clear about it ;-)
