[quote=cesco]I guess this is where the phrase " nice guys finish last" would come from ? maybe yes maybe no, it fits though...
I guess as a kid I was always taught by my mother to respect women. There was no book on how too, but "be nice" was the words she used..
Ahh, but Grasshoppah . . . the secret is learning how to be a nice guy, without being a Nice Guy.
Just in case you are getting swayed with this talk, let's just say this advice is the pits.
Such a respectful response, KS. Did this approach work well with your husband? I'll let my advice nearly 15,000 posts speak for itself -- I really don't feel the need to justify it to you. If you want to disagree with me, that's fine -- free country and free speech and all. But you don't have to be so RUDE about it.