I just noticed the difference in my attitude between my first post here 3+ weeks ago and now. I am much more calm/indifferent at this point.

I was ticked off about W talking to OM the day after Valentine's day which caused a bunch of stress and arguments between us over the following 2 weeks. My original post on this thread was just a few days after that all started.

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline