Originally Posted By: marriedCrazy
You'll be amazed at how much phone calls like that crack the ice with the WAW.


I sure hope so. We talked again by phone today about none R things. Another friendly conversation, short and sweet. I think I'm doing ok. Continue to keep things friendly, no stress, no R talk, finish the conversation with small talk. Hopefully I'm at least not pushing her away any longer.

Met with my new C today for the second time. This C is VERY good. Extremely pro marriage. This C really seems to understand my W and what she going through right now. This helps me to continue to try to see things through her eyes. This is definitely the C I would like for my W and I to go to together when the time is right. Gives me some relief to feel comfortable that I seem to have found the right C.

This C recommended watching the movie "Fireproof". Anyone watch it? Good? Bad? This C said it would be good to watch and could be helpful for me. C also suggested I read the book, "Love Dare" after I watch the movie. Off to the movie store and then to the book store I go...

All in all, a good day.

Last edited by mza8; 03/11/10 12:59 AM.

M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
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