You'll be amazed at how much phone calls like that crack the ice with the WAW.
I sure hope so. We talked again by phone today about none R things. Another friendly conversation, short and sweet. I think I'm doing ok. Continue to keep things friendly, no stress, no R talk, finish the conversation with small talk. Hopefully I'm at least not pushing her away any longer.
Met with my new C today for the second time. This C is VERY good. Extremely pro marriage. This C really seems to understand my W and what she going through right now. This helps me to continue to try to see things through her eyes. This is definitely the C I would like for my W and I to go to together when the time is right. Gives me some relief to feel comfortable that I seem to have found the right C.
This C recommended watching the movie "Fireproof". Anyone watch it? Good? Bad? This C said it would be good to watch and could be helpful for me. C also suggested I read the book, "Love Dare" after I watch the movie. Off to the movie store and then to the book store I go...
All in all, a good day.
Last edited by mza8; 03/11/1012:59 AM.
M 38 WAW 36 Together 19 years Married 12 years Bomb/Separated Oct. 09 I love my wife Sitch