NM, I can see how the clothing comment would be discouraging, but that could be an "act of service" - like "sorry for leaving my clutter in your way". Hard to know and not worth analyzing
Meeting your DB goals...definitely progress! I hope that your H is starting to really think to himself...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.