awest- thanks. You are right that things aren't greener where he is at. His mom does love having her son around. However, when he is there she will have 40 million things for him to do and complete around her house. Which he doesn't mind doing, but when she constantly nags him about it....he gets super annoyed, irritable and grumpy smile

I just need to realize that if he does file for divorce it really isn't the end. It is just part of the process to a reconciliation or divorce. I just am having such a hard time not being in contact...I miss my friend. But then again he hasn't been the most pleasant person lately so I don't miss that. I guess what I mean is that I want the space ship to come back to planet earth.

My new motto is:

Expect the worst and hope for the best!


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