so..every 8 days means ex: Fri, Sat, then the next week Sat, Sun, then the next week Mon, Tues...etc?
hmmm. Not every one works 8-5 Mon to Fri. But darn it I could see even if you had it posted a month ahead on the big calendar it will be like "are we going to daddy's in a couple of days?" or when you need to plan events, it will be random...
this is complex. Sorry to give the credit of seeing the psychologist to your WH! Oops! Of course I should have known it was you! But it might be a good idea to have an objective person help out.
What does Kalni say about the psych helping you set up the schedule?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004