What I feel is fair is to have $1,000 of my check left. I can make it on that. That's what we basically agreed to when we met in February before she got spooked and hired this attorney.

If I can get to that level I should be able to figure ways around other stuff.

The credit card stuff really isn't that big of a deal -- I'm mentally prepared for bankruptcy -- but will stick in my side. I begged, pleaded with her to stop spending and didn't man up until we hit $15,000 in debt.

It's ultimately my fault though because I applied for it and thought we could handle it.

Chickens coming home to roost.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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