The key CTH is that you have proof that you have been with the girls and never once wanted to have less. Just relax talk to the lawyer and counter higher than you want so there is some negotiation room. I think it is rediculous for you to pay child support and 1/2 child care, in IN child care is part of child support or factored in.
Go for what you feel is fair.
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