OK, so now I have a dilemma. We have a family holiday booked in 4 weeks time with some good friends & their family which was booked before this all started. Boys were really looking forward to going but are now not comfortable with the possibilty of W not going. She has told FIL that she will not be going as friends have said they do not want her to go - this is not true. I see this as a no-win situation for me as if W does not go boys will be upset, If W does go boys may be given hope that there is a possibilty of reconcilliation which could set them back in terms of getting used to the current situation. Additionally it would be like rewarding W for bad behaviour, however if she decides not to go boys need to be told that it is W decison and she has not been forced into this situation. Accomodation has plenty of space so no issue there and we could easily coexist for the 2 weeks (after all we survived for 3 months before she moved out!). I feel as if W. should be told that she can go if she wishes and throw the ball into her court - comments please
