Why do you keep spending time with this woman when you know damn well you are unable to control yourself?
Well I would say we wont be spending any more time together in the future.
And yeah...everythign I do makes my position in the custody case that much worse. Two months ago I would have had no problem winning and maintaining primary custody. now...thanks to all the drama from learning about the OM to my interactions with her...it's looking more like joint custody at best.
There were two conversations with my ex that, if I had recorded, would have likely put me back up there as an almost guarantee for keeping primary custody. One was last week where she was going off on a rant about her mom and grandmother and calling them c*nts and saying she hoped they choked on shrimp at dinner and died.
I think a judge would have a hard time awarding much custody to someone who could say that about their own mother and grandmother.
The other conversation was this morning when she openly admitted to her pay from her one job not being on the books. While not directly relevant to the custody issue it would have been good to have "just in case".
I cant wait til this weekend. My family is coming into town and we're taking D3 to see Disney's Nemo on Ice. It will be nice to see them and have them here in person for support.
