I also compare notes with OW ex spouse.

I hear from him that they fight terribly, of course I knew this.

I have to say, and please forgive me if this sounds harsh, but I get some enjoyment from just watching and observing the demise of their relationship. It is entertaining and I think I deserve at least that. This may not be appropriate DBing, but at this point I don't care.

Elscotto,
I use to be so embarrassed about the fact that my ex had an affair with a much younger woman. As time goes on, you really see how much this is so not about you. The more upfront I am about my situation, the better I feel about myself and life. I find it amazing how many other people out there have experienced infidelity.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11