I've seen a lawyer.. but she wasn't very helpful... just kept pushing mediation though H wouldn't go for it at all... Her firm requires a $2400 retainer to take on a client.. might as well be a million to me right now..
Just a thought about this lawyer situation, you are in Canada. I don't know which Province you are in but there are free lawyer services available for eligible people. Depending on your income. Try to contact "Legal Aid" for more info, they may have some information on their web site as well.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO