Mind - of course----and that's how I've approached everything during this separation and now I'm in this situation----where I'm separated, but don't act like it----for the kids, but it is killing me to keep pretending as he starts the major push for the D.

I WANT to keep my kids with me all the time----I don't want to share.

It's all moot. I asked D13, and she said she wanted to take a pass. I shipped him a quick e-mail telling him she wanted a pass, and his reply:

Very bad. I'm done. She's going to have to fail and then decide to do something about it. I am not going to be more invested in her spectacular talent than she is.


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12