new information from W : NOW WHAT, pro's please .

[cesco]

I guess this is where the phrase " nice guys finish last" would come from ? maybe yes maybe no, it fits though...

I guess as a kid I was always taught by my mother to respect women. There was no book on how too, but "be nice" was the words she used..
My dad being from the old country was very "MAN" like.. It was only his way and for better or for worse my mother put up with it.
It was the way it was and accepted that way.
Please know that I am not saying this is right. I lived with that and wasnt always in agreement on his ways.
Today its about finding the half way point so that the respect and the self worth is not jeapordized.
I guess like all men on here we all thought that being nice was the right thing to do!... NOT!!

I truly believe that just before your married they should have courses on this kind of stuff. Teach both men and women how to become life long partners.

I can only say that I wish then what I know now. Life would be different.
I had a session today with my IC and she basically told me that I need to do things that are shared on this thread. ( not bad on the eyes either) lol..


GAME ON!!!!..... LET THE CESCO TAKE CONTROL OF ME AND ONLY ME AND GAIN MY OWN SELF RESPECT AND PROVING THAT I AM WORTH IT!!!!..

I want to thank you for your continued support..
I dont post much as I am a rookie at this and feel that my advice is not senior enough.. I can only be supportive and continue to post. Its good for the anxiety..